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How To Actually Enjoy Decluttering

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Decluttering. For some, that word is enough to brighten their eyes and lift their spirits. For others, not so much. It’s more like a tolling knell of doom.
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Have you been feeling the urge to simplify, organize, and declutter your space? For some, the end of the year is the ideal time to set their houses in order. Others prefer to do it at the beginning of the year or in the spring: both seasons feel like new beginnings when change is in the air.

Maybe you’ve been getting that urge, but it feels more like guilt over your messy house than excitement at the opportunity to simplify.

I hope this list gets you excited about decluttering and makes you want to jump right in!

Outlook matters

Does the very thought of minimizing or decluttering give you a sinking feeling of despair?

Before you even start thinking about decluttering, we need a positive mindset: something that will keep you motivated and focused on a goal.

Why does it matter? Well, your perception of decluttering (or minimizing, or simplifying, or whatever you want to call it) sets the tone for the entire process.

If you see it as a huge chore looming ahead of you, you’re likely to drag your feet and do it reluctantly. Reluctant decluttering isn’t as effective as enthusiastic decluttering. Neither does it achieve the same results.

If you can start with a positive mindset and see decluttering as a process that will help you trim the excess from your life so you can focus on the things you really love, then this sets a totally different tone for the whole project.

It becomes almost a game: you give yourself a worthwhile goal and challenge yourself to do your best, knowing that the more thorough you can be, the better the end result will make you feel.

You really can do this, whether you like organizing and decluttering or not. The key is to start with the right attitude. Here’s how to do it.

Finding the right words

Let’s start with words. Words are important. How you say something impacts how you think about it. And how you think about a project influences your attitude toward it.

If “decluttering” just sounds like a bad word to you, what about “simplifying?” “Or minimizing?” Who wouldn’t be excited about a “home beautification project?”

Try to find some way to phrase it that sounds appealing- or at least not disheartening! I’ll try to use all of these words in this article, but I’ll probably use “decluttering” most just for simplicity’s sake.

Picture your ideal home

This is a common recommendation, whether you’re talking about organizing tactics, home decor, or finding your “signature style.”

Basically, it means daydreaming about your ideal home. Sounds fun, right? Then write a description, draw a picture, or find pictures that capture the essence of your dream. Pinterest or home decor books or magazines are great sources of inspiration.

These pictures give you something concrete to look at and renew your inspiration during the decluttering process (which is often messy and can be discouraging).

Picturing your ideal home is a helpful tool, if you don’t try to change everything all at once. Don’t fixate on trying to imitate someone else’s house or clothing too closely, or the end result will feel empty.

My rule of thumb is to find your ideal, then work with what you already have. Your decluttering process probably doesn’t involve buying a new house, so your home isn’t going to look exactly like that glossy magazine photo.

But you can reimagine the space you already have, and create something you love. It’s hard to do this when your house is so full of stuff that you can barely see it. (If you want to read more about this, check out my review of Cozy Minimalist Home.)

That’s the beauty of decluttering: it allows you to start again and create a collection of things you really love, whether you’re tackling a closet or your entire house.

Imagine your life in that ideal home

This is the answer to the question, “How can decluttering help me?” And that is the key question, isn’t it? It’s what provides you with an incentive to start, and also what keeps you going even when it’s overwhelming or you feel like you’re not getting anywhere.

What do you feel when looking at the picture of your ideal home? Peaceful? Cozy? Relaxed? Energized? Serene? Inspired? Whatever it is that defines your ideal home is your end goal of decluttering.

Consider writing down a few words that describe your ideal home and putting them up next to your picture. That way, you can refer back to your ideal when you feel frustrated or discouraged.

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Set yourself up for success

If you want to enjoy decluttering instead of dreading it, then it’s not enough to daydream and set up a pretty picture. There is actual work involved, but don’t despair! Give a little thought to the process before you start, and you’ll save yourself from headaches and disappointments later on.

Method to the madness

Once you get your ideal home and lifestyle firmly in mind, it can be tempting to jump into declutter mode right away. After all, you’re excited now, and you want to get going before that excitement wears off.

I get it. But before you start, it’s important to have some kind of system in mind. Choose what you will focus on: clothes, books, kitchen and housewares, linens, papers. If you want to tackle everything, that’s great, but you still need to choose a starting point.

There are different decluttering and organizing methods out there. Some people like to go room by room; others sort through all of one category (like clothing, books, or papers) before going on to the next.

Within those two broad methods, there are numerous more specific organizing strategies. You don’t need to narrow it down any more if you don’t want to. It can be overwhelming just looking at all the different organizational philosophies out there!

If you want to do something in depth like the KonMari method, go for it! Just know that it’s okay to ONLY organize your closet or your living room if that’s all you feel ready to take on right now!

I prefer to declutter and organize by category, but that might be because our cabin has just one large living space plus a tiny bathroom. Tackling one room at a time wouldn’t be much of a starting point for me.

Whatever method you want to use is fine; just choose something that works for you and stick to it.

Choose a time wisely

Decluttering isn’t a job to jump into as soon as inspiration strikes. If you do, you’re likely to get distracted by other chores. Even if you can concentrate on your goal, there are bound to be other things that come up and demand your attention.

Kids need love and attention and diaper changes. Husbands need love and attention and lunches packed. They all need meals at regular intervals. And then there are all the other household tasks.

If you decided to tackle a large category or room, it will probably take longer than an hour. I don’t know about you, but if I’m going to do something for more than an hour, I have to plan for it ahead of time.

So sit down and take a look at your week. Find a day that looks fairly calm, and schedule your home beautification process for then. Don’t try to start in the evening after supper. That’s just setting yourself up for frustration, because it’s almost a guarantee that you won’t finish before bedtime.

Minimize Distractions

This goes along with choosing your time wisely. If you foresee distractions, try to find ways to eliminate or reduce them.

For example, I have a baby and a toddler to work around. If I want to be able to focus on my minimizing mission, then I start when the baby takes a nap. When he falls asleep, I put on some music and get my toddler set up with books and toys so he can play by himself for a while.

Your distractions will vary, of course, and you can’t foresee everything! Just think through the scenario and if any potential problems or distractions come to mind, address them first.

Plan Ahead

I’m talking about supper. Make sure dinner is an easy one that day (read: not meatloaf, mashed potatoes, homemade bread, and dessert).

Decluttering will probably take longer than you realized, even if you just start with a small area. Not only that, but if you don’t finish what you started all at one time, you’re apt to feel discouraged and drained of energy for anything else.

You might think that making a great home-cooked meal will give you a sense of accomplishment even if decluttering didn’t. I’ve definitely thought that way.

When it comes down to it, though, at the end of the day when I’m already discouraged, the last thing I want to do is make a big dinner. And if your heart isn’t in your work, it probably won’t give you the satisfaction you crave.

So rather than trying to tackle several big projects on the same day, give yourself a break and pull a meal out of the freezer.

Set the Mood

Here’s an idea for those who really dread cleaning or organizing of any sort. Think about your ideal home, and the words you used to describe it. Choose an essential oil that exudes those same characteristics, and diffuse it while you declutter.

Essential oils can help clear your mind, soothe or energize (depending on the oil used), and boost motivation. They can give you the spark you need to face the task at hand and march bravely in!

Plus, it’s a sensory reinforcement of the goal you are working toward. If your ideal home is soothing and restful, lavender or chamomile essential oil might be a good choice for you to diffuse.

If bright energy is what you’re after, try citrus oils or peppermint. (These are also great for boosting energy and motivation during the declutter phase, even if that’s not your end goal.)

Want to feel warm and cozy? Try this recipe for a blend of grapefruit, angelica root, black pepper, and cypress essential oils to diffuse throughout your home.

Start Early

The earlier in the day you begin, the more time you have to finish, right? I’m not saying you should get up an hour early just to start decluttering (unless you want to, of course!), but look at your schedule and plan to start in the morning if possible.

Also, it’s easy to be motivated in the morning, with the whole day stretching before you. If you don’t start right away, it’s easy to keep putting it off until a “later” that never comes.

No more excuses. Just eat a healthy breakfast, pour yourself a cup of coffee or tea, and go for it!

How do I get my motivation back for decluttering when I’m overwhelmed?

You’ve begun the process of decluttering. You set a time and tackled one closet or category. You sorted and made separate piles for keeping, tossing, donating, and giving to your little sister.

But then you have to go do something else: change a diaper, pick up the kids, make dinner, whatever. The mess is left on the floor, and now when you walk into that room, it looks worse than when you first started.

I know it’s discouraging, but that’s just part of the process. It’s easy to look at the mess and think you’re not getting anywhere, but that’s exactly wrong. The mess means you are committed to getting the job done.

If you’re at this stage of the game and feeling frustrated, I encourage you NOT to touch the mess again until you have another big chunk of time to work on it.

It can be even more frustrating to try to chip away at a big task like this in 5-minute increments throughout the day, and it will make the task seem enormous. I find myself getting more and more discouraged, because it seems like I’m not getting anywhere.

This is not the most effective way to go about it. Stopping and starting a task like that means wasting many minutes staring at the mess trying to remember where you were in the process and what you should do next.

It’s much better to wait until you have a little more time, when you can really get a substantial amount done. That way, you will feel a greater sense of accomplishment for spending the same amount of time on the project.

Next stop: your simplified home

I hope you have found some of these tips helpful in motivating you to start decluttering. Not everyone can get excited about clearing out closets and sorting through piles of stuff (not to mention getting rid of some things).

But my hope is that with a positive mindset and a thoughtful plan of action, you can make what could be a daunting task into something more manageable.

Happy home-beautifying!

~Kimberly

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Ultra Power Saving Mode for your Grocery Budget

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21 ways to save money on groceries

If you’re trying to save money on groceries this year, you’ve come to the right place. There are tons of money-saving resources out there, but this one is different.

I’m always ready to learn new strategies for saving money, but I’ve been disappointed lately. It seems like every article I read about how to save money on groceries just talks about apps or couponing services.

Those may work for some people, but I don’t find most of them to be very helpful. The shopping apps and coupon sites (paid or free) that I’ve seen mostly show coupons or discounts for brand name products. That would be fine if the coupon was worth it. But 50 cents off of a $1.99 can of tomatoes still doesn’t beat the store brand for $0.79.

So I compiled a list of tactics for the shopper who really needs to cut expenses and save money. This is for you if you’ve cut out all extra expenditures and don’t know what else to do.

I know these methods work because I’ve used them for the last 4 years to keep our grocery bills under $350/month for three people (plus a baby). I can keep them under $300/month when I use all of the tactics listed below. And that’s in Fairbanks, Alaska, where there is no Aldi and groceries cost over 25% more than the national average!

I don’t use every single tactic every month because I’m a weak human being, and I like to buy seltzer water now and then! But I do use some of them all the time.

If you would like to save money on groceries, but aren’t desperate, try a few of these tactics. If you need to save a LOT, use all of them. I promise that you will see a difference in your grocery bills!

Again, I don’t use all of them every month. They are meant to be like Ultra Power Saving Mode on your phone: you don’t use it all the time, just when your phone has a low battery and you need it to last as long as possible.

I’m warning you: these tactics aren’t as quick and easy as downloading a fancy app. It takes some time to plan meals before you set foot in the grocery store. Shopping on a tight budget doesn’t allow you to experiment with lots of exotic foods (unless you consider rice exotic…)

But if you don’t have enough money for groceries this month, it’s worth it. If you’re desperately trying to scrape up some extra cash, it’s worth it. This list of tips will help you stretch your grocery budget farther than you ever have before!

Before You Shop

Are you ready to start saving? Don’t head to the store just yet. Having a plan is one of the most important things you can do to save money on groceries. These tips will help you form a plan so you can stretch your hard-earned cash as far as possible!

1. Start with a meal plan.

This basic tool will help you plan out your menus for a week or a month at a time. When you’re in Ultra Power Saving Mode, I suggest planning more than one week of meals at a time. You don’t have to tackle the entire month if that idea seems overwhelming, but try to plan two weeks of meals.

You will only be shopping for this week’s groceries, but if you notice something on sale which is on your menu for next week, wouldn’t you rather pay sale price and move the meal to this week? Or just freeze the sale item for later use. You can read more about meal planning here, or just grab a free copy of my meal planning bundle.

2. Take an inventory of your refrigerator, freezer, and pantry before you make a meal plan.

This helps you to use what you already have, so it doesn’t sit in the back of your pantry for months. It’s nice to have a well-stocked freezer and pantry for times when money’s tight.

I like to do this at least every other month, and keep an inventory sheet posted on my fridge. Then I can easily refer to it when making my meal plans and grocery lists, instead of digging through everything trying to find out whether or not I used that last can of corn.

3. Go quasi-vegetarian.

Shoot for 3-4 meatless meals per week. Meat is often one of the most expensive items people buy. By replacing meats with other forms of protein, you can easily shave off a good chunk of your weekly grocery bill.

And choose wisely the meats you continue to buy during this period. When we’re on a tight budget, I only buy bacon or whole chickens. Why? Chickens go on sale for $0.89-$0.99/lb several times a year, and a whole chicken gives our family 3-4 meals if I plan them right. That comes out to just over a dollar per meal for a large chicken.

Bacon is a much higher price per pound, BUT you don’t use as much bacon in a meal as you do other meats. Also, bacon greatly enhances beans, and we eat a lot of beans.

4. Plan to grocery shop just once per week.

No running back to the store for last-minute items you forgot. This will not only save on gas, but also keep you from being tempted to purchase other things you don’t really need.

Some people can walk out of a grocery store with only the one or two things on their list; others just can’t help seeing sales, and come out lugging much more than they planned to buy. (It’s also much easier to keep track of grocery receipts if you only have one per week!)

If you know that you’ll only be grocery shopping once per week, you have to be organized and plan ahead. This means you need to sit down with your meal plan and make a grocery list that includes everything you need to make meals for a week.

5. Look at the weekly ads and coupons for your grocery store before you go.

I said that I don’t find most grocery apps helpful. The exception is apps that are specific to one grocery store. These often have coupons for store-brand items, milk, eggs, and produce.

They might also give you points for gasoline discounts or other rewards or rebates. In my experience, not all grocery apps are created equal. I use the Safeway app all the time, but Fred Meyer only rarely.

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At the grocery store

6. Go shopping first thing in the morning.

This is when many grocery stores mark down items that will be expiring soon. I usually shop at 8:30-9:00 on Wednesday mornings, and I can almost always score markdowns on meats, yogurt, and other dairy products.

7. Compare prices for fresh and frozen veggies, especially if it’s not garden season!

For example, I know that I can usually buy fresh broccoli in the winter for about $2.49/lb. However, frozen broccoli runs around $1-$1.25 for a 12 oz. package, which comes out to about $1.67/lb.

It also helps to keep in mind what you will be doing with those fruits and vegetables on your shopping list. Frozen carrots work fine in soups and casseroles, but not in coleslaw. Extra points for planning meals around frozen vegetables while making your meal plan!

8. Don’t put anything in your cart that you could eat on the way home.

What I mean by this is that you shouldn’t be buying convenience foods. Aim for buying ingredients only: flour, butter, and eggs instead of bread or crackers. The obvious exceptions to this rule are fruits and vegetables, which you can often eat in their natural state!

9. Don’t buy any beverages except milk.

If your home doesn’t have a safe source of drinking water, that’s a different story, of course. But in general, stick to this rule. I’m also not going to tell you that you can’t have tea or coffee if you really think you need it. I’m merely pointing out that these beverages aren’t necessary, and can therefore be dispensed with for a period of time if your budget is very tight.

What I’m really talking about are drinks like juice, soda pop, seltzer water, iced coffee or tea, and alcohol. These are extras, and shouldn’t be in your cart while you’re in Ultra Power Saving Mode.

10. Know when to wait.

Let’s say cheddar cheese is on your list. It’s not on sale, but you know that cheese does go on sale at least once a month. Mentally review your meal plan.

Do you have any cheese at home, or was it just on your list because you were running low? Do you have any other cheeses that you could substitute? Could you make the recipe without cheese? Could you save the recipe for next week and make something else that doesn’t require cheese?

Ultimately, only you can make the decision. But learning to adjust your grocery list and meal plan on the fly is a valuable skill.

11. Don’t buy organic anything, unless it’s actually cheaper than store brand.

I don’t want to open a can of worms here. I’m not saying you should never buy organic food. I do, myself, when we’re not in Ultra Power Saving Mode. But buying non-organic food for a month while you’re trying to save money will not kill you.

If you just can’t bring yourself to buy factory-farmed chickens or beef raised on corn, then don’t. Go completely vegetarian for a month, or ask the clerk in the meat department which day of the week the organic meat gets discounted. Shop on that day, first thing in the morning. I often see organic chicken and ground beef discounted up to 50% or more.

12. Buy your beans and rice in bulk.

Like, at least 5 pounds at a time. No cute little 1 or 2-lb. bags. Those aren’t much better than sale-priced meats. And don’t even think about canned beans! It’s really not that bad to cook your own. The hardest part is remembering to do it before 4:00 p.m. Try setting a reminder on your phone.

13. Compare unit prices.

These are the little numbers on a price tag that lists the cost per unit the item is measured in. Units will be different for different items: eggs are measured in dozens, beans are measured in pounds, milk is measured in gallons.

Comparing the unit price across different brands and different sizes of containers will help you to see which item is the most cost effective. Buying a larger package might raise your grocery bill this week, but it will help you to save money on groceries in the long run.

Hint: if you see two different units for the same type of item (ounces or pounds for two different brands of tomato sauce), the one measured in larger units will nearly always be the cheaper option.

14. Don’t assume that buying in bulk is always cheaper.

Now that you know how to compare unit prices, it’s tempting to buy everything in bulk. But that’s not always the best way to save money on groceries. Don’t assume that just because it’s in a big package, it will be cheaper in the long run. Always double check that unit price!

Also, if you don’t need a lot of a particular item, the most cost-effective option may actually be the smaller package. This is especially important to consider when you’re in Ultra Power Saving Mode and every penny counts. Don’t get stuck thinking you ought to buy the item with the lowest unit price.

If you just need a bit of gruyere cheese for your French onion soup, don’t go out and buy the biggest package you can find. Find a small package, or substitute a less expensive cheese with similar characteristics.

Shop sales wisely

15. Resist sale items if they’re not on your list.

This is a tricky one, because it depends on your situation. Normally, I will scan the meat department quickly for markdown stickers or a really great sale on chicken.

It can be tempting to stock up on something when it’s on sale. But if you’re serious about not going over budget this month and you’ve made a meal plan that will keep you on track, don’t let yourself get distracted by the sales.

Again, you have to evaluate your situation. If you think you will be in Ultra Power Saving Mode for more than one month and it’s an item you use frequently, maybe it does make sense to buy two or three instead of one. But don’t buy six jars of peanut butter just because they’re on sale. There will be other sales in the future.

16. Ask for rain checks.

Sometimes stores run out of sale inventory faster than they estimated, and there aren’t any left by the time you get there. If a store is advertising a great sale and you planned for it, so the item is on your list and in your meal plan, ask an employee in that department for a rain check.

As long as the sale wasn’t advertised as “while supplies last,” they should be happy to give you a rain check. This locks in the sale price for you, so you can purchase the item when it is restocked, even though that might not be until after the sale has ended.

17. Make a price comparison book and bring it with you.

This is a great tool for learning how to spot great sales and save money on groceries even at regular prices. Technically, you should do this at home, before you grocery shop. But if you haven’t been saving receipts, you can’t start until you go shopping.

Get a small notebook and write down all the foods you normally buy: one item per page. I wrote down everything I could think of on one piece of paper first, then transferred it to the notebook in alphabetical order.

Take the price book along on shopping trips, and copy prices from your receipts when you get home. List the name of the store, unit price, price you actually paid with the actual quantity purchased, and whether or not it was on sale. An entry for eggs might look like this: Safeway, $2.69/dozen, $4.04/1.5 dozen, SALE.

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18. Figure out which stores have the best prices on items you commonly buy.

Don’t assume you know! Take your price book along and write down regular prices, not just sales. There is a Costco in my city, but I don’t have a membership. It’s not worth it for my family.

I’ve tagged along with relatives on their shopping trips, to check out the prices. Some of them are great; others are no better than our regular grocery stores. You need to know which items you normally purchase in order to accurately judge whether membership-only stores like Costco or Sam’s Club are cost effective.

If you judge that it’s not really worth the price, but there are still a few things you would like from that store, try to find a friend or relative who has a membership. I keep a short list of items that we buy at Costco, and my sister is happy to pick up a few things for me once a month.

19. Put your blinders on.

Stick to your list. If you don’t need anything from a certain aisle, don’t go down it. Do you ever find yourself walking up and down every aisle out of habit? That may be a good way to get some exercise, but it’s not good for your wallet when you’re trying to save money on groceries!

It sounds silly, but if I’m not paying attention to my list, I’ll find myself wandering down the coffee aisle sniffing appreciatively and gazing at all the tea. (And if Stash Irish Breakfast happens to be on sale, it will end up in my cart.)

Avoid temptation by only walking down aisles if you have to. And if you know you have a weakness for something, look the other direction if you have to pass by it!

20. Take a calculator or your phone and tally up prices as you put items in your shopping cart.

I often do this at the end of the month when I have a hard cap on my grocery budget. It prevents that “Oops, I didn’t think it would cost so much,” when you get to the checkout lane. Pick out your most important items first, and come back for the “extras” if you’re not sure you will have enough money.

The hardest items to do this with are different kinds of produce, which are sold by weight. Unless you have two calculators or can do mental math better than me, just estimate.

Side note: you can add everything up in your head as you go along if you don’t have a calculator. You just might get some funny looks as you stare intently at a package of pasta before triumphantly announcing, “Twenty-nine eighty-two!” (Ask me how I know.)

21. Watch that cashier!

Cashiers are human, and humans make mistakes. I don’t know how many times I’ve looked over my receipt after a shopping trip and noticed items that should have been discounted but were not.

Most stores in my area have screens that you can watch while the cashier scans each item. Keep an eye on this, and say something if you notice an item coming up as the normal price instead of the sale price. It’s not bad manners to ask for the sale price, as long as you do it politely.

If you would really rather not confront the cashier, you can always quietly head over to Customer Service when you’re done and point out the mistake.

Conclusion

After reading this collection of tips to save money on groceries, you should be all set to head to the store and start saving money! If you find these tips helpful or have another recommendation, I would love to hear from you! Leave a comment below.

Happy saving!

~Kimberly

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Sweetheart Cranberry Almond Scones

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These sweet, fruity scones are a pretty and delectable way to show a friend or sweetheart you love him!
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There’s something about the combination of almonds and cranberries that fascinates me. I experienced it once in a pie, and decided to try again with these cranberry almond scones. To my delight, the same flavor phenomenon took place!

Perhaps it happens because they don’t grow in the same climates. Or because they are both such strong flavors, but very different. I even came up with some verses about it:

I know not if it's real or imagination, 
but the fact stands that the combination
of sweet almond and tart cranberry
has a resulting flavor that's nigh unto cherry!

Okay, so I’m not much of a poet. But these cranberry almond scones do taste surprisingly like cherries, as did the “mock cherry pie” I once tasted, which also used this combination.

I suppose tart cherries are the ones used for pies and most preserves. I’ve never eaten one raw, so I don’t know how close the flavor is to cranberries. But why would almonds make cranberries taste like cherries?

It’s beyond my ken, but in a land where cranberries grow and cherries don’t, I’ll take what I can get!

More and more berries

If you follow my blog, you will note that this is the second cranberry scone recipe I’ve posted in as many months. This recipe is very different, I promise! While I was happy with the first cranberry scone recipe, I wanted something a little different this time.

Keep the bright cranberry flavor, but sweeten it more. And make the scones lighter, if possible. I don’t care for dense scones, and the first recipe- while soft and not actually dense- was still not as light as I wanted.

So instead of complementing the cranberries with orange and spice, I opted for the lighter, sweeter pairing with almond. I sugared the cranberries before adding them, to cut their tartness. And I folded the cranberry mixture into the dough at the very end to preserve as much flaky lightness as possible.

The result: a tender, lightly sweet scone with ripples of cherry-flavored fruit filling. They are a little messy to make, and require a light touch, but the end result is definitely worth it. These cranberry almond scones exceeded my expectations!

My husband says that the almond glaze drizzled on top takes these scones to a whole new level! He gave this recipe his approval by eating most of them.

These cranberry almond scones would be perfect for a Valentine’s Day treat, or make them for any other special occasion to surprise your sweetheart.

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Method

Preheat your oven. Set the cream cheese out so it can soften a bit. (Set it on the stove while the oven heats for extra warmth.) The butter can stay in the refrigerator, as it should be cold.

Prepare the cranberry filling

If you are using frozen cranberries, make sure they have time to thaw, at least most of the way. Frozen berries won’t take up sugar like fresh ones do, and they will still taste pretty tart in the scones.

Place cranberries and 3 tablespoons sugar in a food processor and whirl for a few seconds until combined. Stir in almond extract.

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Chopping the cranberries with sugar in a food processor makes the filling more evenly flavored, instead of partly tart and partly sweet.

Make the dough

In a large bowl, combine flour, salt, 2 tablespoons sugar, and baking powder. Mix until thoroughly combined.

Cut the butter into small chunks. Mine are usually about half a tablespoon in size. Cut the cream cheese into smaller pieces as well. These pieces don’t need to be as small, because the cream cheese is (hopefully) softer.

Add the butter and cream cheese to the flour mixture and cut in with a pastry blender or fork until the butter is in roughly pea-sized pieces. You shouldn’t see big chunks of cream cheese at this point.

(If you do, your cream cheese wasn’t soft enough. Next time, try cutting the cream cheese in first, before the butter.)

Stir the egg into the half-n-half, and add to flour mixture. Mix lightly just until combined. Fold in almonds.

Knead & shape the scones

Turn dough out onto a floured board or counter. Knead gently three times. Pat dough out into an oval or rectangle shape about 3/4-inch thick.

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When spreading the filling over the dough, leave about an inch around the edge. This will make it easier to work with the dough.

Now comes the messy part. Spread the cranberry filling over half of the dough. It will be runny. Fold the other half over top of the filling, pressing down lightly. Fold the dough in half again. Some of the filling will probably fall out. Don’t worry about it.

Pat it out a little and fold one more time. (You can skip this last fold if your dough is falling apart or it looks like it might.)

scone dough
Don’t worry if the dough looks messy when you’re finished. It will look better after you bake the scones. If some of the filling falls out, leave it. You don’t want a lot of juicy filling running onto the baking sheet, or it will burn.

Pat the dough into a circle 9-10 inches in diameter. With a sharp knife, slice the circle into 6 wedges. Place the scones on a buttered baking sheet, slightly separated so the edges aren’t touching.

Sprinkle sliced almonds on top of each scone. You may also sprinkle sugar on top, if you will not be glazing them later.

cranberry almond scones
See, they already look better after being cut into scones and topped with almonds!

Bake the scones for 12-15 minutes, or until the edges are golden. Remove the scones to a wire rack to cool. When they are completely cool, you may glaze them with a thin icing made of powdered sugar, milk or cream, and a few drops of almond extract.

Of course, you don’t have to let them cool all the way, especially if you sprinkled sugar on the tops before baking. Cranberry almond scones are delicious warm from the oven!

cranberry almond scones on plate
My favorite way to eat scones is fresh from the oven! My husband prefers them cooled and glazed.

Have you seen the combination of cranberries and almonds in any other recipes? Leave a comment below!

Cranberry Almond Scones

These cranberry almond scones have a light, flaky texture and sweet filling reminiscent of cherry. An almond glaze makes them extra special!
Prep Time20 minutes
Cook Time15 minutes
Total Time35 minutes
Course: Breads
Keyword: Bread, Cranberry, Scones
Servings: 6

Ingredients

  • 3/4 cup cranberries
  • 5 tbsp sugar divided
  • 1/4 tsp almond extract
  • 1 3/4 cups flour unbleached
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 2 1/2 tsp baking powder
  • 2 ounces cream cheese softened slightly
  • 3 tbsp butter cold
  • 1 egg
  • 1/2 cup half and half
  • 1/4 cup sliced almonds + more for topping
  • extra sugar or almond glaze if desired

Instructions

  • Preheat your oven to 425 degrees Fahrenheit.
  • Combine cranberries and 3 tablespoons sugar in a food processor. Pulse for a few seconds until cranberries are chopped. Stir in almond extract.
  • In a large mixing bowl, combine flour, 2 tablespoons sugar, salt, and baking powder.
  • Cut in cream cheese and butter with a pastry blender until mixture resembles coarse crumbs.
  • Whisk the egg into the half and half. Pour into flour mixture and stir just until combined. Fold in sliced almonds.
  • Turn dough out onto a floured board. Knead gently three times. Pat dough out to 3/4-inch thickness.
  • Spread the cranberry filling over half of the dough. Fold the other half over on top of it. Fold the dough in half again. Pat it out a little and fold in half a third time. Pat into a 9 or 10-inch circle. Cut into 6 wedges with a sharp knife.
  • Place scones on a buttered baking sheet, separating them so that the edges are not touching. Top with additional sliced almonds and sugar if desired.
  • Bake for 12-15 minutes, until edges are golden. Cool on a wire rack. Drizzle with almond glaze if desired.

Notes

For almond glaze: Stir a tablespoon of milk and 1/8 teaspoon almond extract into 3/4 cup confectioner’s sugar. Keep adding milk a little at a time until desired consistency is reached.
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Easing into Meal Planning

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You’re tired of never knowing what’s for dinner, tired of spending extra money on food because nothing is in the fridge, and tired of eating pre-made, highly processed meals that don’t make you feel good. So you’re thinking about meal planning, but don’t know where to start.

You may have heard friends or family members talk about their meal plans, or maybe you did a Google or Pinterest search and were overwhelmed with the number of different methods and resources out there.

I’ve seen some methods that are quite detailed and seem pretty intense. Others want you to buy an app or even a subscription to dinner kits. Those options can be great, depending on your situation.

But if you’re a busy girl with an unpredictable schedule, you might not be ready to invest in a paid meal planning service. And you definitely don’t need a complicated, rigid system.

I get it. If you’re looking for a way to ease into meal planning without spending a lot of time or money, I’ve got just the plan for you. It’s simple, it’s flexible, it’s free, and it will take you less than half an hour per week.

Is meal planning worth it if you’re single, busy, or both?

Some meal planning systems seem to be built for stay-at-home moms with unlimited time for cooking. I’m a stay-at-home mom myself, but I still appreciate fast, healthy meals that my family will enjoy.

And I understand unpredictable schedules. If you’re staying late at school or work and coming home hungry to an empty refrigerator, I get it. Tortilla chips and salsa used to be my go-to meal on busy nights.

I remember buying vegetables at the grocery store, and then watching them rot in my fridge because, well, what am I going to do with a bunch of celery when it’s 7:30 pm and I need something to eat now, not in an hour?

At that time, I thought that a meal plan wouldn’t help me because I was so rarely home to cook. I didn’t want to buy a lot of food and have it go bad. I didn’t need a meal plan that would make my life more expensive and stressful than it already was.

But there is a way to make a simple meal plan that fits your life, even if it’s crazy. Even if you feel like you’re never home. And I promise that cooking real food- even if it’s only once a week- will save you money.

This meal plan is designed to be flexible. If you are home for dinner most nights of the week, but just don’t have much time to cook on weeknights (or whatever your schedule is), I’ve got you covered!

How to start a meal plan

Just read through the steps and choose which option fits your life best right now. Don’t pick a plan based on your ideal life or what you think your schedule will be a month from now.

It’s easy to change your meal planning slightly to fit a different schedule down the road. For now, stick with something you KNOW will work.

If you can only plan one week at a time, that’s fine. If you have no clue what you’ll be doing on the weekend, I’ll show you how to plan for that too.

The key is to start slowly. If you try to take on too much at once, you will probably end up overwhelmed and just give up on meal planning altogether.

Ready? Grab a pen and some paper to jot down ideas, and let’s get started!

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Make a Meal Planning Cheatsheet

What’s the first thing you need to do when you’re ready to start a meal plan? Think about the kinds of meals you like to eat. Take out your pen and paper, and start making a list of meals you like.

These should be meals you have cooked yourself, or have helped someone else cook. That way, you know you can actually make them! It’s okay to start with boxed mac’n’cheese if that’s where you’re at. You don’t need to know how to cook from scratch to start meal planning.

Don’t write down your favorite fancy restaurant dish that you’ve been meaning to try. We’ll get to that later! Try to come up with a list of 15 familiar meals that you like. (If you’re really having trouble with this, you can start with 8-10, and fill in the gaps later.)

Since you’re just starting out, stick to suppers only: main dishes in particular. You can worry about side dishes later, once you get the hang of this meal planning thing.

This list will become your cheatsheet or master list for meal planning. It will come in handy when you find yourself staring at your meal plan with no ideas- or on those weeks when you didn’t even make a meal plan because your schedule was so crazy.

Organizing your list

If you wish, you can organize your master list of meals into categories. I find it helpful to organize them by the main meat or protein in the meal. This is especially helpful for when you buy meat/seafood/other protein on sale and then don’t know what to do with it!

Or you could organize by type of dish. What exactly do I mean by that? Soups, casseroles, one pot/skillet meals, slow cooker meals, etc. This can help you plan for busy days when you don’t have time to cook, as well as days when you will have an hour or two before supper time.

For example, chicken tortilla soup could be listed under “Chicken” or “Soups.” Italian sausage & peppers could go under “Sausage” or “Skillet Suppers.” You get the idea.

You can find both options for categorizing your meal planning cheatsheet in my free downloadable meal planning pages!

All right. Now that you have your cheatsheet started, you’re ready to make your first meal plan!

You might be saying, “Wait! How’s this cheatsheet supposed to help if it only contains eight meals?”

Don’t worry. You’ll add to it as you cook different meals and find things you like. It’s meant to be a resource you can look back at and adjust over time.

Plan out one week of meals

STEP 1: Grab a sheet of paper

Or a notebook, or my printable meal planning pages. If you’re making your own meal planner, write down the days of the week, with space below or beside each one.

Some people do better visualizing their schedules with a monthly grid or calendar. (There’s one all ready for you in my pack of printable resources!)

If you go this route, don’t feel like you need to fill out the entire month all at once. You can still plan week-by-week, and just keep the schedule organized by month.

TIP: I keep my meal plans in a notebook or binder because I find it helpful to refer back to previous weeks or months when I need inspiration.

I can easily come up with a week’s worth of meals this way- without even opening a cookbook! Who wouldn’t want a quick and easy way to plan meals in less than five minutes per week?

Of course, when you’re just starting out with this, it will take a while before you have enough variation in meals to help with dinner ideas.

STEP 2: Decide which day you will go grocery shopping

This doesn’t have to be the same day every week. Just make sure you plan enough meals to last you until the next grocery shopping trip.

I usually include grocery shopping day in my weekly meal plan, because it tends to be one of my busiest days. I need to have that day’s supper planned in advance, even if it’s going to be leftovers.

For example, if I normally shop on Wednesdays, my meal plans run from Thursday to the next Wednesday.

If you shop on your day off and have plenty of time to cook that day, you might prefer to start your meal plan with shopping day. That’s fine too.

STEP 3: Plan around your schedule and what you already have

Now that you’ve determined when you’ll go grocery shopping, think about your schedule for the next week.

Which days do you have time to cook supper? Which days will you be out for 8-10 hours, but have time to throw something in the slow cooker before you leave? Are there days when you’ll have absolutely no time and need to plan leftovers?

What about special occasions? Is there a holiday or birthday coming up this week? Date night or dinner at your mother’s house? Write it down so you don’t plan too many meals.

If you only see one or two days in the next week where you’ll be able to cook in the evening, that’s okay. Just make sure to cook extra on those days, so you’ll have leftovers to eat later.

TIP: Cook extra on days when you have a little more time than usual. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy; just make a big batch of spaghetti or soup, and you just created an extra meal or two!

Now look in your fridge and freezer. Is there anything you need to use up quickly? Take a peek in your pantry. Do you have a lot of rice or canned tomatoes?

Keep these items in mind as you come up with meals for the week. Starting with what you already have prevents waste and helps you save money.

STEP 4: Start filling in your planner!

It’s finally time to fill in that meal plan! If you haven’t cooked much, stick to simple meals for now. I don’t want you to give up on meal planning when it’s actually the cooking which is the problem!

Look over your meal planning cheatsheet. Based on what you found in your fridge and pantry, do you have most of the ingredients to make a meal or two on the list?

If so, great! Write those meals down on your meal planner. Make sure you put the meals on days when you will actually be able to cook them.

If your fridge is mostly empty, not to worry. You must do a good job of using up what you buy!

Assign leftovers or 10-minute meals to your busiest days. Examples of these speedy suppers include: bean & cheese quesadillas, scrambled eggs with veggies and/or bacon, chicken or taco salad, BLTs or other hearty sandwiches, and canned or frozen (thawed) soups.

STEP 5: Fill in the gaps

You probably still have a few blank spaces to fill. Gather some recipes for inspiration. But before you go grab all 18 of your cookbooks and look up your Pinterest recipe boards, hold on for a minute!

Trying to make a meal plan with too many recipes to choose from is a waste of time and energy. Even if you’re not a novice cook, it’s just overwhelming to look through hundreds of recipes and try to choose from among them.

If you’re like me, you might end up getting distracted and merely flipping through cookbooks or scrolling through recipes on your phone. Before you know it, you’ve wasted an hour and there’s still nothing on your meal plan.

When I make my meal plans, I limit myself to one or two cookbooks, or a Pinterest board full of recipes I want to try.

This way, you will actually use your cookbooks instead of just admiring the pretty pictures! You’ll also find out which books contain recipes that work for you, and which ones aren’t really that useful.

As a general rule of thumb, I don’t schedule more than one or maybe two new recipes per week. New recipes can stress me out, especially if there are a lot of other things going on. You can read more reasons why in this article on cooking simply.

Okay. You have a cheatsheet, you know what ingredients are in your kitchen, and you’ve grabbed a cookbook or Pinterest board for additional ideas. You should be able to come up with meals for a week pretty quickly.

TIP: As you fill in your meal plan, write down the location of the recipe.

If it’s in a cookbook, use an abbreviation for the title and list the page number. I would write “ACF 96” for a recipe on page 96 of the book, “A Continual Feast.” I’ve included little boxes in the upper right corners of your meal planner just for this purpose!

STEP 6: Make a shopping list

Once you’ve filled it out, don’t stop quite yet. There’s one more quick step. Grab your grocery list and write down all the ingredients you need to prepare these meals.

Remember to check your pantry and refrigerator to see what you already have! As you continue meal planning, this will get easier as you learn to stock up on common ingredients.

That’s it! You’re done! Congratulations on completing your first meal plan! Now you’re all set to make a week’s worth of meals that fit your schedule, and you know what ingredients you need to buy and how much time you need each day to cook.

Moving Forward

We focused on planning suppers for this first week’s meal plan. You probably want to eat more than once a day, though. I suggest that for this first week, just stick to what you’ve been doing. If that’s grabbing breakfast or lunch from the cafe close to work, so be it. Start slow, remember?

If you’re using my weekly meal planner, you have spaces to fill in breakfasts and lunches in addition to dinners. You don’t need to use these sections at first, or ever if you don’t want to.

I will occasionally plan special breakfast or brunch dishes, but other than that, it feels kind of silly to write “eggs & toast” or “oatmeal” every day. I know some people really like to plan all their meals, and that’s why I included the extra spaces.

If you don’t want to use them, try my monthly meal planner. That page only has one box for each day, so it’s better suited for dinner planning only.

Review your progress

Every week or so, it’s good to review your meal plan and write down what you actually ate that day if it differed from what’s written there. Life doesn’t always go as planned, so don’t get discouraged if you don’t stick to your meal plan all the time.

Some weeks I’ll make all the meals I had planned, just not on the days I had planned them. Other weeks, our actual menu will look totally different than what was written down. There’s nothing wrong with that. I’ve crossed out my planned meal and written “pizza” quite a few times!

Meal planning isn’t going to work if you make a plan but don’t stick to it and don’t track what you’re eating instead. If you do track what you’re eating, it can help you plan better.

Are you grabbing takeout because you’re too tired to cook after work? Maybe you need to plan really simple meals like a jar of pasta sauce and frozen meatballs, or meals that can be frozen and reheated, or slow cooker meals that can be prepped in the morning.

Periodically reviewing your intended meal plan and comparing it to reality will help you to become a better meal planner. Even if it starts out pretty rocky. Just remember that a meal plan is a tool to help you, not a standard of perfection that makes you feel guilty if you don’t follow it exactly.

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I hope these tips and resources are helpful. My goal is to equip you to start a successful meal plan that will save you money, time, and energy.

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